Can you explain more about why you're against spanking? I agree, I'd just like to hear what you have to say.

j0ye:

  • it is hurting someone
  • your child, specifically, who should not be hurt by you of all people
  • it doesnt work in the long term
  • it develops trust issues
  • it is reliant on fear, and teaches them to be afraid instead of actually learning what they did and how to self-discipline (i.e., “mommy spanked me when i tried crossing the road by myself, so i shouldn’t do it in front of her so i don’t get spanked” instead of “mommy told me i could get hurt if i cross the road by myself, so i won’t do it”)
  • it asserts the ideology of stronger = right, and that because someone hurts you they are correct
  • it shows that violence solves issues, which causes your child not only to normalize violence, but to partake in it
  • it disregards bodily autonomy (as in people not touching you without your consent)
  • it hurts their self-esteem, as well as affects their mental health, and their intelligence
  • it becomes a gateway to harsher abuse due to desensitization
  • it creates detachment of the parent/child bond
  • it normalizes degrading and harmful behavior on the parent’s end
  • it continues on the cycle of abuse
  • it’s just overall shitty don’t hit someone, especially not someone who is smaller than you, defenseless, and VERY easily affected by it ok just don’t
atmidnightcc:

zzleigh:

I love atmidnightcc, I love the incredible Ron Funches, and I love poofy/sparkly things; so creating this fan art was a necessity My ipad crashed about fifty times while making this, it couldn’t handle all the fabulousness

IT’S BEAUTIFUL

atmidnightcc:

zzleigh:

I love atmidnightcc, I love the incredible Ron Funches, and I love poofy/sparkly things; so creating this fan art was a necessity
My ipad crashed about fifty times while making this, it couldn’t handle all the fabulousness

IT’S BEAUTIFUL

deforest:

Joan Crawford in Possessed (1931)

dildoreo:

dildoreo:

one time i took a picture of a tiger at the zoo and the tiger smiled for the picture it was very great and the best picture i’ve ever taken

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ja